Yesterday a friend and I were chatting about my blog and my message...Friday, January 30, 2009
Behavior Modification
Yesterday a friend and I were chatting about my blog and my message...Monday, November 24, 2008
Change is not an option...It's an obligation

There are certainly times in which I wonder what, if any positive impact I may be having on others. I've been thinking about that a lot lately. In the last few weeks, that answer was delivered to some degree. There have been three individuals who have in one way or another, been effected by my message.
Tuesday, November 18, 2008
Changing the world one cup at a time . . .

Monday, October 27, 2008
Magic Pill

A couple of weeks ago, I was waiting to teach a class at our local JCC. While waiting on a bench outside the studio, a gentleman approached and asked me a question. He wanted to know if there was a "magic pill" that he could take to look like I did. Flattering for sure...
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Thursday, August 14, 2008
Where have I been...

I'm back! I know it has been quite a while since I have made some new posts. I have been busy in many areas of my life. But rather then bore you with all of those details...it's time to get back to talking about change. Since I haven't written for some time, I have plenty of experiences to share...
Let's start with a recent one.
My 5 1/2 year-old Jack has just begun kindergarten ( still hard to believe). My wife and I decided that it would be a great idea to take Jack and our 15-month old daughter Lucy to a family oriented fun park for the weekend before Jack started school. We had a vision of an enjoyable and entertaining weekend with each other...looking back I have realized that it is clearly unlikely that parents and kids share the same ideas about what is fun and enjoyable.
We had been told for years that Holiday World (www.holidayworld.com), located in Santa Claus, Indiana (yes..I did say Santa Claus) was a wonderful theme park to visit with family. Additionally, everyone raved about the cleanliness, the friendly park staff; and let's not forget...free unlimited soft drinks and sunscreen. WhooHoo!
So, we packed up the van and made the 3 plus hour trek down south, never passing any reindeer or elves. Just minutes after arriving, the realities began to set in. Crowds, lines, congestion at every turn. We pushed forward and hopped into a line for a ride that Jack could actually ride (height restrictions on most rides). Jack turns to me and says "how long do we have to wait?" How could he not understand that...it's a theme park, right. Well, I suppose if you consider he just spent over 4 hours travelling and getting into the fun park, a 5 year old might have trouble with that.
After our first ride, which lasted about 120 seconds (with a 40-minute wait), we needed some hydration. And here is where my real issue with this park are exposed....
They have a few "sponsors/partners" of the park. One of them happens to be a small outfit that goes by the name of Pepsi. Located throughout Holiday World are what seem like dozens of small buildings with fountain soda machines located inside. And, let me tell you, they are getting used non-stop. Already concerned about what might be available that wasn't completely unhealthy...we approached the machine. Pepsi, Mountain Dew, Diet Dr. Pepper, Diet Mountain Dew, Gatorade, and Fruit Punch....Oy! No milk, no juice, nothing with a drop of nutrition...unless you count water out of one of the shared fruit punch nozzles. Boy I wish I brought more of Jack's all natural, no sugar added juice boxes and organic drinkable yogurts. We did bring a few, but Holiday World clearly states on their website that no outside food or beverage may be brought into the park.
Look, I am a reasonable and rational person. We are at a theme park, you would expect this type of offering. However, this particular theme park raves about it's commitment to family. Please, if you had a real commitment to family and kids, you would make different choices. I have spent my entire life engaged in the field of sales and marketing. I can imagine the co-op dollars Pepsi provides. Couldn't Holiday world step up and have their "partner" provide some alternatives...Pepsi owns Tropicana juice, Aquafina water, Sobe Life Water, Dole juices, Ethos Water and others that would be far better choices for "families".
Now, the food choices at the Holiday themed paradise aren't much better. Pizza, corn dogs, funnel cakes and so on. I had to really search to find one outlet that had a salad for me to eat! So, here is my point...
If you are really committed to families and children, change your views. We all have this responsibility, but that responsibility is much greater when you serve masses of children. Think about the advantages it may offer the park. Call Clif bar, they offer a (great and healthy) organic bar for kids. Call Kashi and get some granola bars. Imagine the interest from brands committed to health and wellness...they don't typically have outlets such as this to provide their products. Oh, of course it may cost a bit more...so add a couple bucks to each of my ticket prices, I'd happily pay it. Or, allow people to bring their own food and beverage.
Times have changed. If you truly want to provide a great family oriented experience, try to make it a healthy experience as well. Otherwise, you might as well serve the kids coffee, funnel cake and throw them in a movement restricted line for 45-minutes.
Time to change . . .
More soon....
Josh
Agent of Change
Tuesday, February 5, 2008
Yes . . . We All Can
Three words . . . YES WE CAN.
It is not often I find something this blog worthy . . . This is not about poltics. It is about possibility. It is about change. Yes . . . we all can.
Josh Neimark - Agent of Change
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Sunday, January 27, 2008
Chef Wendell Fowler - Another Agent
Although it is rare that I call out someone else's blog...my friend Wendell Fowler's is worth reading. I often refer to Wendell as the "Organic Fundamentalist"...Wendell has a great story, not so different from my own. After a life "changing" experience, Wendell has devoted himself to exposing the world to the benefits derived from eating properly. Long time chef and caterer, he also has a knack for exposing the "truths" behind food manufacturing, preparation, distribution and about everything in between. He now is a syndicated columnist, motivational speaker, star of a weekly television segment and published author of two books (with a third on the way). After becoming a fan of my blog . . . Wendell decided to start his own. I read it regularly, find it extremely educational and I actually laugh out loud often. I encourage you to check it out . . . http://chefwendellfowler.blogspot.com. (I have included a link in my link section as well).
Here is a recent post on an "off beat" topic . . . enjoy.
http://chefwendellfowler.blogspot.com/2008/01/wind-breaking-news-at-6-pm.html
Josh Neimark - Agent of Change
Tuesday, January 8, 2008
Opening Doors You Didn't Know Were Closed
Over the holidays I travelled to a tremendous location in southern Mexico. Of course, as usual, I began to have concern regarding how and where I could workout while there...weeks before our departure. And, as usual in the end, it was unnecessary concern.
On the website of the resort, it did list a "fitness center" on location, so I had hoped for the best. Upon arrival, I sought out the "fitness center" and found that it would be of no use.
So...I went old school.
I would simply do functional things to get some sort of physical activity each day. And, although many activities now come much more easily to me...I had the opportunity to really challenge myself as well. My son Jack is approaching his 5th birthday, and his interests are wide ranging. Particularly, he loves to explore, hunt for treasures and in all seriousness, do very "risky" things.
One of our first mornings in Mexico, he and I headed out and down the beach exploring. I wanted to try and get some exercise as well. As we approached one end of the bay, we were met with rocks (as seen in the photo above), leading around and up a small cliff. So, in the spirit of adventure, we pushed forward over the rocks and headed for the top. The view from there would be spectacular. Initially, Jack did well over the first grouping of rocks, but as the we continued to incline, he started to have some trouble (keep in mind we were barefoot and in our bathing suits).
So, what was a Dad to do...we certainly couldn't turn back now.
Jack climbed onto my back, gripping tightly around my neck as we proceeded upward. It took about 25-minutes or so for the main part of the climb. But 5-minutes in, with the weight on my back, I was sweating. At least I was getting a "workout" in.
After reaching the top, Jack and I sat on the cliff and looked at the incredible views. We talked about many things, but mostly pirates. As I sat atop the cliff, I kept thinking about what a great experience this is for he and I to share. At one point, in mid-conversation, Jack looked over the edge and asked what would happen if we fell off? I told Jack that we could get very hurt. He then asked, could we die? Although a possibility, I assured him that I would not let us fall.
Climbing down was much more difficult then going up, particularly since I had 45 pounds on my back once again and could not turn around very much to assist with navigating. We walked back over the rocks and eventually to the resort to meet up with the family. While walking, I turned back and looked at terrain we had just traversed. I realized that I had just accomplished something I would never have even considered attempting before. I didn't think twice about the challenge of going up the cliff. I never even considered that I may not be able to get to the top. Incredible, considering that it was not all that long ago that a flight or two of stairs seemed daunting.
A new door had opened.
A door that I did not even realize was closed. I have gained true functional strength. I had just applied all the hard work in the gym to an activity, a challenge, an experience.
I can't imagine how many other doors in my life were closed, but I now have the keys to open them.
Of course...there is always another part to the story. Jack did feel necessary to run to my mother and grandmother and share the details of our "adventure". They of course were not fond of the activity or risks involved (and said as much), but we managed to sneak back there another couple of times...Jack had to find the pirate treasure of course...I had already found mine.
Josh Neimark - Agent of Change
Friday, December 21, 2007
Enjoy the Change . . .
What I find particularly interesting about the holiday season is this; in one way or another, regardless of your religious or cultural background, the vast majority of individuals you encounter (on-line included) become part of this common "well wishing" theme. Can you imagine if the message of "change" could be spread in that manner . . .
2007 has been a year of great change in my life. I have continued to change in many ways, and I am no longer in search of the mountain top. I realized some time ago that with regards to change, there is no final destination. Change is a constant.
So, here is my "holiday" message. Focus on changing you. That's right, be a little selfish. Don't allow your environment or exposure to certain aspects of society dictate your plans. If you desire change in some area of your life, then make that decision, move forward and do not let outside influence take you off that path. It isn't complicated, it is a choice. If you want to lose weight, then work out and choose to eat healthier. If you want to help the green movement, then do more than put out a recycling bin once a week. If you want to spend more time with your family, then leave work early twice a week. Whatever it is, just make the decision, make a "change".
What you will find, is that each change you make within yourself, makes the next change far less daunting. And, each and every change you make, impacts another. So, if you were mathematically inclined, you could easily build a model to display the impact of personal change on a collective group (society).
In the past few months, I have seen the impact of my own change in others. And, as I continue on my quest, I find it incredibly fulfilling to know that another individual can be impacted by changes I have made.
In many ways, I know look forward to change. I look forward to continuing to restore "balance" in my life. I look forward to new "change" challenges; and I really look forward to watching how others are affected by that change.
Enjoy the holiday's, enjoy the New Year's . . . Enjoy the Change.
Josh Neimark
Agent of Change
Friday, December 7, 2007
Watching the birds…
As I retired to my hotel on the southwest coast of California each evening, I spent some time reflecting on these teachings, as well as how I would attempt to apply them to my fitness regimen. In the mornings, I would sit on my balcony and look out over the stunning scene revealed in the bay beneath me. Watching the birds above, I realized that nature was key to understanding balance.
As you know, I write a lot about balance, not only in our physiology, but also in our culture and society.
Although I have come a long way in establishing greater balance as related to my own fitness abilities, I am only beginning to traverse that path. And, if you have been following my posts, you know that the tool I utilized to improve my physical balance was the BOSU Balance Trainer. I continue to use this tool (actually I now own multiple BOSU’s), but am now engaged in an extension of this type of training. There will be more on this in the upcoming posts.
Back to the birds…
One of the aspects of this new training is creating the ability to transfer your downward energy into a positive upward force, not dissimilar from the way the birds wings propel them through the skies. During my trip, sitting in the glowing rays of the morning sun, something occurred to me. This thought wasn’t a ground breaking new theory on life, but something that stares us in the face everyday….nature is inherently balanced.
Typical of my westernized mind, I of course began to “challenge” the idea. Certainly I could identify natural processes which weren’t balanced, that acted independent of other energy or had a process that broke down at some point…
However, I have had an awful lot of trouble trying to find any of those examples, with one exception; human beings. When I could identify a breakdown, there was outside influence causing the imbalance. Scenario after scenario, the only breakdowns in the natural processes I challenged, was directly tied to people and those things which people impacted.
Take a moment and think through it yourself. From the way our sun enables life on our planet day after day, to the way flowers are pollinated; to the countless symbiotic relationships throughout the animal kingdom…there is balance in all of it. Whether you are spiritual or scientific, the same scenario will reveal itself.
Interestingly enough, the more examples I examine, the broader the picture becomes. Begin with the human body…a masterpiece really. The way all of our complex organs work together to comprise a complete and efficient whole. Our musculature is balanced…our abs and back muscles, our biceps and triceps, our hamstrings and quadriceps…perfectly made to provide our bodies with efficient and necessary movement. Now look outside of our bodies. The process of growing food. Sounds simple enough, but consider all of the components which go into it. Nutrient rich soils, water, sunlight and so on. Grains or vegetables will not grow without the correct balance of those and many other elements. Look farther. Look at the big spinning rock which we inhabit. The perfect distance from the sun to garner energy, light and heat, but far enough to allow us to survive. The impact that water has on our planet, from the seas, to evaporation, to precipitation which then of course provides water to grow the foods I just mentioned.
Now, I am clearly over simplifying here, but the point is that nature is balanced. There are elements and processes which assist everything around us in existing. Can you imagine what the picture might look like without it...Certainly the data on global climate change can give you some idea of what will occur should we continue to disrupt this balance.
We (humans) are part of nature just like everything else. So, take the position that we were also much more balanced , in fact it is likely that we were perfectly balanced.
So, if nature is balanced, yet we are seeing increasing disruption in that balance in nature, our own culture and society, what can we possibly do?
Begin to restore the balance which is being lost.
For me, a significant step in doing so has been the process of improving my own physical balance, both in a linear and non-linear fashion. On one hand, I have worked for some time to literally improve my physical abilities with regards to balance, and on the other hand; being more balanced physically has allowed my mental state to achieve greater balance as well. I am healthier and feel better, so I think more clearly, or more balanced.
Clearly there is a spectrum of balance, and I vacillate from dead center often. But my goal is to be as close to center and as often as possible. Of course, in each of our own world views, balance can be shifted quickly…mortgage payments, job stress, traffic, medical bills, politics, college tuition, 401K programs and on and on and on. It would be absurd to think you could eliminate all of those things by just improving your balance, it is the world in which we live. But, greater balance is certain to assist you in the way you react to everything in your life. And, if you react in a different fashion, improve an outcome, make a situation better; then perhaps we begin to slide towards the middle of the spectrum. If each of us could make that shift, however slight, imagine the possibilities.
Balance is the key. Don’t take my word for it, take a look outside…go watch some birds fly. If after thinking it through, you believe that you can identify a natural process that isn’t balanced (human interaction/disruption doesn’t count), then you let me know.
Until then, consider how you can slide towards the center a bit, perhaps I will see you there.
Josh Neimark – Agent of Change
Sunday, November 4, 2007
Change . . . To Become Different
1. to become (or make) different
Synonyms for "Change":
change, alter, vary, modify
Sounds simple enough . . . doesn't it? You hear it all the time, people speak of the need for change with regards to the environment, our political position, in our health care system and so on.
In some ways, I do believe that change is a simple thing. Not long ago I wrote a post describing how making the decision to exercise was not actually difficult. You just have to decide; just as I once decided that brushing my teeth was something I would do everyday. And, I still brush my teeth because now it's habitual.
However, it is not human nature to change. It is far easier to be complacent. Yet, we continually hear others preaching about what needs to be changed. But are those individuals actually doing anything to create that change?
Of course, there are many instances where you do see individuals change, often drastically. How often have you heard stories or known someone who had that big life changing "scare" and survived? The heart attack, stroke, cancer, etc. In such cases, people certainly change. However, the change in those instances is clearly reactive in nature. How long would someone have gone without changing had they not had the "scary" experience. I suppose it depends on the individual.
If you have been following my story, you already know that the "scary" experience certainly triggered my own change (for those who are new to my story, I would suggest clicking the "How my Story Began" link on the right sidebar). You may also wonder as I have, if I had not gone through that experience, would I have ever changed my behavior? I can't be certain that I would have, but I like to think that I might have at some point.
I like so many others, had the "put it off" mindset for far too long. I'll get healthier when I have kids, I'll quit smoking before the new year, etc. Consider how many times you have heard stories of those who lacked the desire to change and the consequences that followed. How many of those times would a behavioral change have mitigated the damage that occurred?
It's also not just about the individual, it is about the collective group as well (society).
There is a relationship between individual change and collective change. For example, I assure you that although I have always been aware of the environmental issues our society faced. But, I had very little motivation to work towards changing those issues for the better. I had my own issues to deal with, and quite frankly was complacent about everything else. So why would the environment be any different. Even today, global warming and it's effects will have far less impact in my lifetime then in that of my children and their children. My concern now is a clear example of how the ability to change has impacted my societal views and concerns. Because I am more balanced, I now can deal with other issues in a far different manner then previously.
When I was sick, my goal was to make my body healthy. After three years of searching for resolution, not one "expert" had ever approached my illness in this way. Once I finally made my body healthier, my medical issues disappeared. At that point, I then had two choices. Either spend the rest of my existence maintaining what I had accomplished, or I could continue to improve my own balance and understanding. I chose the latter.
Initially it was surprising to me that I felt more passionate about changing other things besides my own physical condition. Heck, it was something I had not felt in a long long time. It was invigorating, exciting and at times concerning. It was at that point, that I really began thinking about the lack of balance we face as a society. So much is out of whack, and way out of whack. Could something so daunting be repaired?
Finding improved health and wellness didn't eliminate all the issues in my life, but it did allow me to think in a more balanced fashion, allowing me to approach the stresses of work, home life and even society in a different way.
I have learned a lot about change in this process. One of the many lessons . . . change is a constant. Everything we do, every decision we make creates change. How you deal with change is the trick.
In my case, the process of change began with my health, but that is not where it will end. It is a journey. It is becoming proactive instead of reactive. It is changing as an individual. I once cared little about the collective group, now I care greatly. I will look at change in a new and way and focus my energy in a productive fashion. I will continue to alter, modify and vary my behavior to continue to find greater balance....will you?Josh Neimark - Agent of Change
Monday, October 29, 2007
When to eat and why
Ironically enough, as I sat down to eat dinner a few days ago, I realized something. As I looked down at my plate, I thought "I am really sick of eating"...
Yes, that was exactly the thought that went through my mind. But, keep in mind that I have been attempting to add additional muscle weight for the past few months, so eating has once again became a focus of sorts in my life. I generally consume around 3200 calories/day . . .
Well, I guess "coming full circle" would be an appropriate phrase now. Don't misunderstand, I do really enjoy food, flavors and all that goes with those experiences. However, since I began my transformation I am finally thinking of food in different terms. In the beginning, I knew I had to cut calories and burn more calories concurrently. So, early on, it was all about finding low caloric/healthy foods, so I could eat more and still fell "satisfied. Then, I reached a point in which it was clear I needed more calories, as my body had shifted to burning more then it consumed. Over 3 months later...there are times I am just sick of eating.
Just as I have written in so many posts before, balance is the key. However, forcing myself to consume a certain amount of calories and protein daily has taught me an important lesson. We need to eat! Now, what and when you eat is also very important, but the "need" is the point I am making here. After a while of eating the way I have learned to, you realize that yes, you need to eat, but it is more of a process, not a passion.
Food is fuel, calories, literally; it is energy. Our bodies require it to operate properly. In the time since the start of my transformation, I have become quite in tune with my own body and the way it responds to both food/energy as well as exercise. I can tell you with absolute certainty that it operates better and more more efficiently if properly fueled. Just like a car needs gas, plants need water and PC's need a power source.
Although I think the old saying "eat to live, don't live to eat" is a bit corny, it is accurate.
Will I still ever really enjoy eating, certainly. But, will I find physical or emotional comfort in it, not likely. Unless you consider the comforts derived from a healthy diet and active lifestyle, then I certainly will.
Josh Neimark - Agent of Change
Monday, October 22, 2007
Somtimes others say it best...
A man's health can be judged by which he takes two at a time - pills or stairs. - Joan Welsh
Physical fitness is not only one of the most important keys to a healthy body, it is the basis of dynamic and creative intellectual activity. -John F. Kennedy
"When thoughts become action, success is attainable."
"Motivation is what gets you started. Habit is what keeps you going."
"If I have the belief that I can do it, I shall surely acquire the capacity to do it even if I may not have it at the beginning." Mahatma Gandhi
"Obstacles are those frightening things that become visible when we take our eyes off our goals." -Henry Ford
Never give in! Never give in! Never, never, never, never - in nothing great or small, large or petty. Never give in except to convictions of honor and good sense. -Winston Churchill
Vincent Lombardi -The harder you work, the harder it is to surrender.
Unknown Author -Success depends on your backbone, not your wishbone.
Josh - Agent of Change
Thursday, October 11, 2007
The Warrior Approach
However, I was so anxious to get back in the swing of things at work and in the gym, that I jumped right back into it all and at full speed. And, although I certainly felt a bit "off", I pushed harder. I had to make up for the time off, I had to push further. This "Warrior" like approach is exactly what led me to injure my calf a few weeks back, and certainly what led me into my bed for the past 3 days. Very quickly, this past Sunday evening I crashed, and by the middle of the night my fever was over 104...I'm sure you can picture the rest of that story.
And.....what did that "Warrior" attitude get me....at least 4-5 days out of the gym, if I recover quickly.
For whatever reason, I like many, have from time to time taken the "Warrior" attitude. It's difficult not to let that silliness enter your mind, particularly the way we are constantly exposed to it. You can see it all around you. TV commercials, music (both lyrics and video), reality television, heck look around your gym, look at the marketing/imagery on fitness products.
I also think that from time to time people mistake "warrior" for motivation. For example, you may listen to the Gladiator or Rocky soundtracks because they put you in a great mindset for working out, however I doubt that you would also like to fight for your life in the Coliseum. But, what I have realized more and more is that the warrior attitude must be a "smart" one. I have written about listening to your body, clearly I need to listen more. I have written about the need for balance, an area I continue to focus on. And, I have written about listening to yourself, not what others tell you (positive or negative). I suppose the old statement "you are hearing but not listening" may also apply in this instance. Sure, I know what I "should" or "shouldn't" do, but that doesn't change the fact that I am human just like the rest of us.
So, how can you be a smart warrior?
Focus on goals, listen to logic, reflect on your own personal progress. Not what the commercial for eliminating "stubborn belly fat" tells you. Not, what the cover of your favorite fitness magazine says about six pack abs in 10-minutes a day, and not by mistaking stupidity for motivation.
I have made great strides. And, since I began working with a pro (Mark), and listening to him, in three short months I have gained close to 7.5 pounds of muscle and a negligible amount of body fat. So, you see when you listen/hear and work hard you can achieve great results. I have continued to stick to my all natural methods. I do not take any enhancements, still no fad dieting, no special pills or energy boosters. The changes since I teamed up with my trainer revolve around a much more specific approach in the gym and a little bit different diet (increase in calories) and additional protein consumption. All which comes from his past experience and education.
I am certainly not saying that hard work and diligence isn't essential, but being smart in conjunction is just as important. Mark had been telling me that it was time to give my body a long needed rest, whether I wanted one or not, I'm getting one now. . .
Josh Neimark - Agent of Change